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ni Rommel Placente
SA YouTube channel ni Ogie Alcasid, pinag-usapan nila ng misis na si Regine Velasquez ang naging journey nila sa loob ng 14 taong pagsasama bilang mag-asawa.
Simulang pagbabahagi ng Asia’s Songbird, “How wonderful it is to be married to someone that is your best friend, who has the same interest as you.
“Kasi di ba, ‘yung mga romance-romance eventually that will fade. It will fade and you are left with really just being good friends and companionship, you’re left with that.
“So it’s wonderful to be with someone who is your best friend also.”
Kasunod nito, natanong ni Regine si Ogie kung happy ba ito sa 14 years nilang pagsasama as married couple.
Sagot ni Ogie, “I view happy as a very temporary feeling, so being happy is like momentary. But I think what I experience and feel being with you for 14 years is joy.
“I equate that with joy because joy is spiritual. It’s not only, oh I’m happy, I’m ecstatic at the fact that we’re married. No, I am extremely thankful, grateful, and that is a joyous feeling that I feel here (in my heart),” aniya pa.
Sa tanong kay Ogie kung paano nila napapanatili ang init at excitement sa kanilang relasyon sa loob ng mahigit isang dekada, “Hindi ko alam ang real formula.
“Alam mo, feeling ko it’s the little things that you do for each other that adds up. When you are selfless about things, your spouse will notice that,” sey pa ni Ogie.