Friday , November 15 2024

Asan ba ako sa ‘yo? Aasa ba ako sa ‘yo? (Nahihilo… Nalilito…)

00 try me francine prieto

Hi Francine,

I’ve been dating this guy for almost 5 years na. We took a break but meron pa kaming communication and nagkikita pa rin kami. Lagi kasi nag-aaway and lagi ako nagseselos. Last February 13 I was with him the whole night but the next day, Valentine’s Day he was with ano-ther girl and sila na ngayon. Sobrang sakit kasi sobrang mahal na mahal ko siya. I want him back so badly! But he looks like he’s happy with her right now. ‘Yung girl na ini-replace niya sa akin is an 18-year old and still in high school. Mag-23 na siya this month ako naman 22. Bakit gano’n ang bilis niyang magpalit? Do you think he still loves me? I’ve been so depressed and stressed about it. I can’t eat and sleep. Also I’ve lost 6lbs … I need help.

TINA

 

Dear Tina,

Unang-una, klaro ba sa inyong dalawa kung ano kayo? Sabi mo kasi dating for 5 years, iba ang “dating” sa “in a relationship.” Iba rin ang “dating” sa “exclusively dating.” Kailangan kasi klaro sa inyong dalawa kung ano kayo para walang disappointments, frustrations at higit sa lahat heartaches dahil dala ng expectations.

Maaaring para sa iyo may mutual understanding na kayo o higit pa pero para sa lalaki hindi ganun, baka nga tingin mo “dating” kayo pero para sa kanya friends lang kayo kahit na may nangyayari pa sa inyo.

Kaya ka madalas nagseselos dahil nga hindi ka secured kaya napapraning ka. At ang masaklap hindi ikaw ang kasama no’ng mismong araw ng mga puso, sabi nga nila ‘yung mga ilegal daw either pre-valentine o post-valentine.

Sige iiyak mo lang ‘yan at tanggapin mo na nagkamali ka. Next time, kung maki-kipag-date ka man ingatan mo ang sarili mo lalong-lalo na ang heart mo, huwag mong ibubuhos ang lahat tapos mag-e-expect ka, hindi naman pala kayo parehas ng pagtingin. Walang masamang magtanong para alam mo rin kung saan ka lulugar, bago ka mag-invest ng oras at feelings. Experience is the best teacher. Learn from your mistakes. Good Luck dear!

                Love,

                Francine

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