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NAGLABAS ng vlog ang anak ni Ruffa Guttierez na si Lorin sa kanyang YouTube channel para ibahagi sa publiko ang reunion nila ng kapatid na si Venice sa kanilang ama na si Yilmas Bektas noong nakaraang buwan.
Aniya, marami ang natuwa sa kanyang 28-minute video.
Pero kung may mga natuwa sa muling pagkikita nila ng ama after 15 years, may mga netizen din na nam-bash sa kanilang magkapatid pati na rin sa ina nilang si Ruffa. Aniya, para raw silang mga tauhan sa pelikula dahil sa madrama nilang video.
Pero binuweltahan ni Lorin ang mga ito. Sabi niya, “As if you know everything or as if it’s so simple, and this is this and that is that. It’s really not black and white.
“There are a lot of people giving theories or negative opinions and blah-blah-blah, whatever. Usually, I shrug off all, like, negativity or whatever because, like you know, it’s always gonna be there.”
Nakiusap naman ang dalaga na sana’y maging sensitibo ang ibang tao sa feelings ng kanilang kapwa at tigilan na ang pagbatikos sa kanyang pamilya.
“We decided to share this part of our lives with you, because obviously the split between my mom and dad was very public and I know that comes along with it.
“But, please, like, if you can leave a hate comment on any other piece of content that I produce, and you can say whatever you want about any other aspect of my life.
“But when it comes to this, especially like me seeing my family again, please, just be careful and be sensitive of what you do comment.
“Because this is possibly the most monumental moment of my life that I decided to vlog and share with the world. So, it’s a bit intimidating to put such a personal aspect of me out there,” paliwanag pa ni Lorin.
“I’m not really that much of a public person, especially about my personal life. I keep that very private.
“There were definitely moments in my life where I was convinced I didn’t know when I was gonna see my father’s side again.
“The fact that suddenly I’m at a point where I’m on good speaking terms with my father and my father’s side, and him and my mom are now entering this new chapter of co-parenting both me and my sister.
“I want you to know that it is possible to heal those relationships, it is possible to move forward, it is possible to grow even if it feels like it’s impossible.
“The right people will come back into your life in God’s perfect timing. Obviously, there’s a lot of hurt in 15 years, but my mindset is that the past is the past.
“There’s really nothing we can do to alter or change it and I’m not the type of person to dwell on the 15 years, but instead, focus on the next 15 years,” giit pa ni Lorin.
